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The second (time) we found out

(written on June 5th, 2015)

Last Sunday I was very sleepy during the day that I had to take a nap with Nathan. I ended up sleeping even longer than him. Once I woke up and went to the toilet, I saw some blood so I thought my period's about to start. It was not expected until (at least) June 3rd, but I supposed it just come whenever it wants. So I put some pads. Apparently nothing more came. Also nothing the next day either.

On Wednesday morning I went to body pump class and found some blood again. I though this is for sure my period. It's June 3rd anyway. But... then again, nothing more. That morning after gym I bought a test pack just in case. All this while still thinking of PCOS and how our doctor mentioned that I might need to see her again next time we'd try to get pregnant.

Today is my birthday. This morning I decided to just use the test pack. It's okay if it's negative anyway. Just to make sure. Well... much to my surprise, there were two lines. The second line was a bit faint so I brought it to hubby right away and asked, "Does this look like two lines to you?"

It sure does.

Oh.

Hello, little jellybean <3

Encouragement and support

 I read somewhere that for a mother to be the best 'school' for her children, she should always be in top emotional condition. When one is unhappy, she would reflect the emotion to her children. It's very hard to keep oneself happy on their own, especially when there are so many things to take care of and thought about. 

Our Baby turns One

8 months old

aww how can you not fall in love with this kid?

Hari ini Nathan pas 8 bulan dan hari ini pertama kalinya dia berdiri sendiri. Biasanya dia manjat pager playpen buat berdiri, hari ini dia pull himself up dan stayed upright for like 5 seconds.

Akhir2 ini drooling banyak bgt ternyata bener mau nambah gigi. Satu gigi di atas ud cut out mau keluar. Siap2 deh kegigit lagi while he's getting used to the new addition. :)

Mulai minggu kemarin sleeping routine nya udah bener2 kebentuk. Makin ke sini makin dicepetin dan dia makin enak bobonya kyny. Jadi biasanya sekitar jam 6 gitu Nathan makan malem, sebelumnya diaper change dulu. Terus boleh main sampe nanti jam stgh8 sikat gigi, pamit sama papa, terus ke kamar buat dibacain Goodnight Moon, breastfeeding, terus ditaro di box (matiin lampu) dan dinyanyiin sampe bobo, usually takes about 20 mins.
Kalo misalnya jadwal mandi biasanya mandi dulu baru makan malem.

Speaking about food, mulai bisa makan yang teksturnya lebih chunky. Emaknya belum lancar blending buat tekstur yg pas jadi nyobainnya baru di jar food yg 8 months and up. Biasanya pagi2 bangun terus makan, abis nap pertama ditawarin lagi sampe ga mau. Abis nap kedua (biasanya bangun jam 4 gitu) dikasi puree buah. Baru terakhir jam 6 dikasih makan malem.

Things are settling down nicely. Cuma agak anxious karena sekitar 3 minggu lagi mau ke Paris bawa bayi... terus in about a month pertama kali long haul flight menuju Indonesia. Semoga anak kecil cooperative deh ya amin amin.

Oh one last note, beberapa hari terakhir tiap abis bangun pagi dan dibawa ke bed mama papa, Nathan suka nyamperin mamanya nyusu (of course) tapi setelah itu dia suka main2 dan crawl back towards me and give me a kiss :') I love him. So much.

The difficulties

Taking care of your own baby by yourself is of course not an impossible task. Every time he does something or reaches a milestone, you feel more happiness knowing you helped him arrive there.

It's not all smiles and joy all the time, though. Sometimes you have to struggle through things, searching here and there on the internet or books trying to figure things out, or when all your tries fail, you simply just do your best. It can be tiring and also make you feel guilty for feeling tired or whiney. :')

I think one of the most difficult thing in having just two persons responsible for a tiny human being, is the lack of parties to blame ^^; it's easy to grovel and thinking how things could be done differently if the other person does this or that. Also it takes a great control of emotion when you hear the other person whines about something; cause you can't help thinking that you are to blame.

And sometimes you wish you can spend some quality time together.

Half-year Old

Tanggal 20 Agustus lalu anak kecil pas berumur 6 bulan :) so far dia udah berguling sendiri, duduk tegak, merangkak (bukan ngesot pake perut lagi) dan manjat2 pager box. Perkembangan motoriknya cepet banget sampe dokter di posyandu (consultatiebureau) nya juga lumayan kaget pas dibilang udah ngerangkak bukan ngesot lagi. 

Umur 6 bulan berarti waktunya belajar makan solid food, beralih dari nipple to spoon! 

Makanan pertamanya Nathan adalah... Puree brokoli! Di Belanda disaranin mulai dari sayur dulu karena kebanyakan anak2 waktu umur 2 thn bermasalah sama makan sayur, jadi sebisa mungkin biar nggak picky, dikasih sayur duluan. Sampai sekarang (hampir 2 minggu stlh starting solids) dia suka2 aja makan sayur, even though keliatan lebih enjoy waktu dikasih buah semacam alpukat, pisang, etc tp tetep lebih banyak dikasih sayur. Nathan juga udah coba makan daging ayam dan ikan salmon, waktu coba ayam dicampur sama kacang polong, kalau salmon dicoba menu tunggal dan seneng makannya mgkn naturally gurih ya. 

Waktu liat perkembangan motoriknya pesat banget, bapaknya sempet nyeletuk, "motoriknya cepet banget tapi belum terlalu banyak ngomong ya..." Abis itu kyny si anak kecil tersinggung jadi besoknya tiba2 ceriwis banget ngomongnya wawawa bababa gitu... ^^; kami berdua berusaha encourage dia ngomong papa atau mama tapi akhirnya kemarin hari Minggu, 31 aug, waktu lagi main bola tiba2 bolanya ditaro dan dia bilang "MAMA" loud and clear. Bukan ke mamanya sih, juga kyny ngga tau artinya apa, just one of his many ramblings tapi mamanya udah senengg banget :') 

Semoga kamu selalu sehat pintar dan bahagia ya, little one. Love you much <3 XOXO